在中西方人进行交际时, 最令西方人头痛不是语言障碍,

　　而是东方人说话时的含含糊糊、转弯抹角......

　　One of the things I have enjoyed most about working in China is using the Chinese language on a daily basis. I have studied Chinese formally for about five years; I have used it regularly in research or work for another four.

　　Over the years, I have come to appreciate how wonderfully rich a language Chinese can be when it comes to obscuring communication. This is a conversation I have had many times in China:

　　"Hello, Mr. Wang? How are you? I was just calling to check about that project we were working on. How is it coming along?"

　　"Hi, David. I've been meaning to call you but I haven't been able to get in touch. Basically, the project seems to be going all right. I don't expect any real problems."

　　"What do you mean? Might there be some difficulties?"

　　"Well, it's hard to say. I think in principle, there's no problem. But sometimes, it's really hard to tell."

　　"If there is a problem of some sort, just let me know; I'll be happy to help resolve it."

　　"What can I say? This kind of project requires a process. Let's take it a step at a time."

　　"I guess so. Do you think it will work out?"

　　"Probably. In any event, I want to check into this in the next couple of days. Later on, I'll get back in touch with you."

　　"Why do you suppose this is taking such a long time, Mr. Wang?”

　　"It's a long story. I can't really go into it now. How about this: why don't I check it out and give you a call back?"

　　"Okay, when should I expect to hear from you then?"

　　"I think I'll need a little time to investigate this. Let's talk again after a while. How does that sound?"

　　"What do you think are the chances this project will fall through?"

　　"I'm just not sure."

　　"Well, Mr. Wang thanks so much for your time. I appreciate your letting me know where we stand on the project. I look forward to talking to you again."

　　After exchanges like this one, it would occur to me that I'd talked with my counterpart for ten or fifteen minutes and yet I knew no more than I did before the call.

　　模糊话

　　社交

　　我在中国工作，最喜欢的事情之一是日常工作中使用汉语。我正式学汉语已有5年，经常地将它用于研究或工作又是4年。这些年里，我发现在阻碍交流时，汉语是一种多么令人惊奇的、丰富的语言。下面的对话便是我在中国多次经历过的。

　　“喂，是王先生吧，你好，我打电话是想问问，我们正在进行的项目进展得如何了?”

　　“大为，我一直想给你打电话，可总没联系上。基本上，这个项目好像还可以，我估计应该没有什么太大的问题。”

　　“什么意思呢?会有什么困难吗?”

　　“唉，这很难说，原则上我认为没有问题，可有时这种事真的不好说。”

　　“如果有什么问题就告诉我，我会很乐于帮忙解决。”

　　“怎么说呢?这种事需要一个过程，让我们慢慢来吧。”

　　“我想也是，你认为能做成吗?”

　　“差不多。不管怎么样，我想这两天我还是打听一下情况，到时候我再跟你联系吧。”

　　“王先生，你为什么认为需要这么长的时间呢?”

　　“一言难尽，现在跟你说不是很方便，要不然，这么着，我进一步了解一下情况，然后我们再通电话。”

　　“好吧，那么什么时候听你的电话?”

　　“我想我得需要点时间去研究，过一阵子再说吧。你说怎么样?”

　　“你认为这个项目失败的可能性有多大?”

　　“我实在不太清楚。”

　　“好吧，王先生，非常感谢你花了这么长时间，谢谢你告诉我这个项目的进展，我希望能和你再次交谈。” 在经过这类的交谈后，我就会想到，虽说我与对方谈了10分钟或15分钟,我并没有比打电话前多知道点什么。